Dating & singles events · Sydney, Australia
No cold approaches, no flaky apps, no cringe.
For those sick of swiping and empty events and craving real connection, not judgment
This is why swiping on dating apps, noisy bars and rushed speed dating struggles to deliver real chemistry. Here's what we do instead.
As featured in
Common Dating Culture Traps that keep Aussie Singles Lonely & Burnt Out?
Is it......
78%
of dating app users feel emotionally, mentally or physically exhausted by the apps.
Forbes Health survey, 2024
91%
of Aussie singles aged 21–35 say today's dating apps are a challenge to use.
Coffee Meets Bagel x YouGov, 2025
42%
of young daters say their friends now actively influence their dating life.
Tinder Year in Swipe™, 2025
32%
of couples say friends and family helped them find their match — the #1 way people meet a partner.
Pew Research Center, 2019
but don't give up, because there's a breakthrough......
Introducing Wingmate Dating Socials
The only event where your confidence grows with every conversation.
No more cold approaches, awkward silences, or feeling lost in a noisy bar.
Our guided intros and balanced groups make approaching easy, natural, and actually fun! So you can relax, be yourself.
Instead of pushing through intimidating solo nights or suffering cringe icebreakers, Wingmate Dating Socials flip the script. You show up with your trusted sidekick — single or taken — and together, you move through dynamic, hosted activities designed to spark genuine connection.
Swiping and still single?
Swiping is never going to fix the basics of Human Connection
A profile can't tell you how someone laughs. A room full of the right people, at a real venue, still can.
Fair warning
These fill fast, and we won't overbook to fit you in.
Every venue caps the numbers on purpose. The whole point is a room that feels right, not packed. Once a night's full, it's full. Latecomers wait for next event.
Simple as that
How it works
Pick your event
Browse by age group, suburb and date! You can either come to a Wingmate event or a Singles Event. We have mixers, games nights, run socials, and more.
Grab a ticket
Spots are limited on every event, so they do sell out.
A host runs the room
You're not left to find your own footing — the host keeps things moving and makes the first introductions.
Show up
Walk into a room of people who chose to be there too. That's the whole magic.
Choose your age group, grab a ticket, and show up.
This month
Events coming up

25–35
Cowgirl wants a Partner (Ages 25-35)
Solenne Restaurant & Bar · September 18, 2026, 6:00 – 9:00 PM

25–35
Your Move - 20-30s Games Night Social
Gymea Hotel · September 23, 2026, 6:30 – 10:00 PM

18–25, 25–35
Wingmate Live | 18-30
Solenne Restaurant & Bar · October 1, 2026, 6:30 – 10:30 PM

35–50
Coffee and Mingle | Ages 40-50
Stix Eatery · October 4, 2026, 9:30 AM – 12:30 PM
Real people, real nights out
Reviews
Infynite is awesome! They provide such a friendly environment with engaging activities. They always host next to a bar so drinks are readily available to buy.
The events themselves are quite fun and interactive compared to what Merge Dating and Thursday Dating do — I'll definitely be going to more over time. I really like what the young lady behind Infynite has done.
Ready when you are
Your next favourite event is already on sale.
Grab a ticket before your event sells out.